Friday, September 19, 2008

Too busy to do the right thing...


It was “Ethics Awareness Week” at UVU this week, and on Wednesday the Excellence in Ethics Award was presented to Utah Supreme Court Justice Christine Durham. One of the Legal Studies faculty members was on the selection committee & invited the rest of us in the department to attend…so I “invited” Eli to come too.

Prior to receiving her award Justice Durham spoke on the topic of “Situational Ethics.” In her presentation she addressed the fact that even though you can teach someone the difference between right & wrong, sometimes because of the situation & circumstance a person is in wrong can begin to look a little right. She then told us about an experiment that had been inspired by the parable of the Good Samaritan.

Two psychologists reasoned that the priest and the Levite were probably preoccupied with religious thoughts as they traveled down the road, and further speculated that the Samaritan was probably thinking about more mundane matters at the moment of ethical decision and might not have had so demanding a schedule as those of the priest and the Levite.

In December of 1970, the two psychologists gathered a sample of 40 students from the Princeton Theological Seminary. Half of the students were given a copy of the Good Samaritan and were told they would be giving a sermon on the subject in a few minutes & the other half were told they would be speaking about employment opportunities for seminary students. All the students were told to report to another building to deliver their talk. Some were told to hurry because people were waiting for them, while others were lead to believe they had a little more time to get to the other building.

On their way to deliver their talks, each student passed by a poorly dressed person, slumped in a doorway, possibly in need of help. As each subject passed by, the man coughed twice & groaned.

Sixty percent of the seminary students walked past without offering assistance. The students thinking about the parable were no more likely to stop than the others. In fact several stepped right over the distressed man.

It seemed the deciding factor of whether to stop or not was time. The majority of the students that stopped to offer aid were the ones that had been lead to believe they had a little extra time.

The psychologists were drawn to conclude that as the speed of daily life increases, ethics becomes a luxury.

Her topic prompted me to think about how often I hurry past others without thought. I get so wrapped up in my own “to do” list that I forget to slow down & give thought to those around me. So for the past few days, as I rushed about my business, I’ve tried to be more aware of others. A friendly “hello” to strangers I pass in the hall, holding the door for someone loaded down with books, or not speeding up to beat the load of students that just got off the bus to the crosswalk, so I won’t have to wait forever!

I’m not sure that any of my actions actually equate to those of the Good Samaritan, but I had way less stress & felt much happier myself.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Something to Think About...

I heard this quoted at a meeting...
Life is 10% what happens & 90% how we react.

Monday, September 8, 2008

Life Is Good!

It's been a while since I've posted anything, so as I was trying to decide what to say in my post I realized nothing too eventful has been happening.

Eli is really enjoying teaching...I guess the fact that he has a passion for the subject really helps! I never realized how exciting the subject of printing & graphic art could be until one of our home teachers asked Eli a question about the history of the printing press...you could hear the love & passion in Eli's voice as he answered the question...who knew that printing & graphic art was something to get excited about. I guess he is passing that love on to his students...he gets little notes from them daily telling him it's their favorite class & he's their favorite teacher.

Tanner is also enjoying being a Monticello...and yes, Eli is his favorite teacher too! He has made several new friends & has some great teachers. He is even taking piano lessons from his music teacher after school once a week...very convenient!

Connor is doing well as a Junior. All A's so far...even in Biology! Hopefully the good study habits that he has started the year off with will continue.

And I still love my job! It's kinda crazy right now...we are finishing up the paperwork for our program to remain accredited by the American Bar Association & there's a lot to do, but I'd rather be busy than just sitting around!

Yep...Life is good for the Escamilla's right now. Except for a little cold that Eli is just getting over things are going very well at the moment...we are blessed!

Monday, September 1, 2008

Gratitude...

I've been trying to be more aware of the blessings around me lately & today as I was driving down the street & saw all the flags, that had been placed in yards by the Boy Scouts, waving in the wind I had an overwhelming feeling of gratitude. How lucky I am to live in a country where I can fly my flag whenever I want!

Saturday, August 30, 2008


You Are Snow White!
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Pure and trusting. You are a gentle soul who can get along with just about anyone. Everyone you meet instantly falls in love with you. How can they resist? You have a pure, lovable nature that's irresistable. Just don't trust everyone who comes across your path.


Which Disney Princess Are You?

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

New beginnings...

Since Tanner was going to a new school where no one already knew him & he didn't have a reputation, Eli & I explained to him that this was a new beginning for him...people weren't already expecting him to act a certain way and he could control what people thought of him, by the way he presented himself . The teachers & kids at Monticello wouldn't know if Tanner had been the smartest, the wise-cracker, the class clown or the bully.

Eli told him that he could be whoever he wanted to be. When first presented with this idea, Tanner's response was "how can I be whoever I want to be...I'm Tanner" & Eli explaind that he could even go by a different name if he wanted to...he considered Riley (his middle name) or Tre (his initials) but decided he really liked being Tanner.

That's what I like about new beginnings...it's a chance to keep the parts you like & improve the things you'd like to change.

Go Forth & Serve...

So, my nephew Spencer went into the MTC today & I was lucky enough to go with my sister Suzy to "drop him off"...for lack of a better way to say it. What a wonderful spirit there is a the MTC...My mother-in-law has been a volunteer there for years & now I know why she loves it so much! To see all these young men & women so excited to serve our Heavenly Father and feel their spirit as they sang "Called to Serve" not only brought a tear to my eyes, but gave me goose-bumps! Spencer has such a great spirit & enthusiasm about the gospel I'm sure he will be a TANFASTIC missionary!